Hey Gloup_Gloup,
Thanks for your quick reply:)
I'd read through those sites, and dropped a message on the G.Skill forum before buying the RAM, where one forum member said that I'd have a hard time using the profiles, but shuold be able to get around 1800MHz with a bit of judicious overclocking. Problem is, my overclocking skills are seriously underwhelming, so I figured that it was worth trying the profiles first.
I installed the 4 sticks, and checked the settings in Profile1, and yes, the Command Rate was set to 2T, but ended up with the same results (Slots 1 & 2 detected and enabled, slots 3 & 4 detected and disabled).
I tried manually setting RAM voltage to 1.64 (it only goes up in steps of 2), and QPI/VTT voltage to 1.05, but got the same results again.
Whilst changing the voltages, I noticed that both the RAM and QPI/VTT voltage settings had a "Normal" setting, and tried those, and now the 4 sticks are running at 2004MHz (Profile1) at cold boot

It still doesn't like Profile2, which has the RAM running at 2136MHz, but that's fine

I'll set it back to XMP Disabled for now, and will go back to Profile1 next weekend, and slap it around the head with a bunch of test utilities, just to see what it can take... If it handles those with no worries, then I'm set, and we can call this one solved

So, to recap the settings...
MIT >> Advanced Memory Settings >> XMP: "Profile1"
MIT >> Advanced Memory Settings >> Performance Enhance; "Standard"
MIT >> Advanced Voltage Settings >> QPI/VTT: "Normal"
Have fun!
Radar5k =8^)