Hi there,
Sorry but I haven't been able to come up with a definitive answer for this problem despite a LOT of research. Like you, the only work arounds have been for other brand Mobos but they all seem to be a bit hit and miss. The only advice that I can offer at the moment, is to try the 8800GT card in another PC if possible, just to make sure that the card is not faulty as, in several cases that I have found on the internet, this has been the problem.
I will keep looking and hopefully I will come up with a solution for you.
In the meantime, someone else might be able to give some guidance as to how to resolve this.