Okay, I tested using just slots 2 & 4 using both sets of memories, and neither worked (the other combinations of 1,2 & 4 or 1, 3 & 4 didn't work either), so maybe this is a slot issue?
The BIOS version is F8, but I couldn't see any version 1.0 or 2.0 - where should I find that?
I changed eXtreme Memory Profile from "disabled" to "Profile1", but that didn't help.
So, what's the next step? Updating BIOS, or something else?