Thanks,
Here are a couple things I forgot to include.
DCTS Mode - Unganged
Bank Interleaving - Enabled
Channel Interleaving - Enabled
The ram works perfectly with 2gb or 4gb installed,,, so I am not sure it is totally incompatible. I do not know why their compatibility list shows OCZ 6gb tri channel kits. Their compatibility list doesn't say when it was last updated. The MB is single/dual channel.....
Still waiting for their tech support answer,, will post it if they tell me anything worthwhile