Greetings,
Selective enable/disable - Neither platform "officially supports" this function. In fact, I'm not aware of ANY manufacturer that officially supports this. People have been doing this for years, but its not best practice or a recommended configuration. Trusting your BIOS as a Boot Manager works for a while, until it doesn't. But you cannot hide or unhide disks.
I would suggest HyperV, VMWare or that you purchase a NAS which is capable or running VM's. This gives you reliable system state, back up and is 100% supported.