Ok I will try again to explain a little more , and add some things I have since tried 
Motherboard is a Gigabyte X370 Gaming 7 with latest F.32 bios ( time of writing ) 
CPU previously clocked up to 4.2 stable with Corsair Vengance LPX  ( 4 x 8GB 2666 rated )  XMP Timings and 2999  Mhz overclock - without issue , after a few bios up dates 
New Flare X Ram Installed ( 2 x 8GB ) with XMP profile enabled , on a cold boot  causes the BIOS to reset the CPU speed to default 
If I load the default speed x 32 @ 100Mhz ( 3200Mhz )  , the cold boot issue will dissapear and I can run the  3200Mhz at the advertised XMP speed . 
I have tested increasing and decreasing all voltages , including : 
Lowering and raising CPU 1.2- 1.5 V 
Lowering and raising SOC 0.9 - 1.3 V 
Lowering and Raising RAM 1.2 - 1.45V 
Lowering and Raising related RAM voltages 
Lowering and Raising LLC on both SOC and CPU 
All of the different power configurations did not make the The cold boot issue go away  for  the following  CPU speeds
3.4 Ghz
3.6 Ghz 
3.9 Ghz 
Edit: I would like to add , that loosening the RAM timings does prevent the BIOS cold boot clock issue , however this is not a true solution as It defeats the object here . 
I really dont understand how a 'more compatible' memory product , can result in much worse performance .  Could this be a board issue , should I upgrade to the X470 , or just return the RAM  and try a different set?