XMP is almost always going to fail, especially if you are not at 133 Bclk.
There is no way a pre-programmed set of settings can guess what your specific CPU needs, you need to set things yourself manually. Set the uncore to 2x the ram multi or above 1-2, then set your ram voltage and timings, then you will need to tinker with QPI/Vtt until you find what is stable for your CPU