Okay, so now WOW is not doing that. and my total memory is listed at 4095mb with 2285mb available with 1696 free. before it said 4095mb total and 1908 available with only 13 free.....
I just went through an reseated the memory and tested each stick per slot. I did notice that with this motherboard you have to have atleast a memory modual in slot 1 or else it will not boot. Is my assumption correct? Because i let memtest run for 14 hours, no errors and prime ran for a while nothing wrong. I did how ever remove a cold cathode light kit and noticed my temps went down to 37c, I did check fan connections the works.
The question now is when i checked the memory and put it back in stick 2(th one i thought is bad) the end facing the PCIE16 slot was up a very small amount, enough to let the system boot, and be reconized but not usbale, i think. I currently now have 4093 total memory, 542cahce,3094 available and 2616 free.
My system is now booting on first button press. Atleast this time after i took out the cold cathodes(were not on at all during this incident). And reseated the memory. Could this issue have been from possible bad cold cathode kit(had to super glue power connector in because cord pulled out from factor) and memory seated off a smidge. Again, i only powered on the system once so far(atleast to get on into os and post this) and it went no issues.