OK! I think I finally have stability!!!!!

Firstly, I manually set the memory stuff: voltage, qpi, timings etc...and everything seems to be working as it should.
Second, the "BOOTMGR image corrupt. The system cannot boot." problem I think is solved too! In the BIOS, I set the HDD priority to the system disk instead of the secondary disk I had in there to store my music and that seemed to do the trick!
Along with the Cooler Master 212+, I'm running cool and stable. (fingers crossed!!)
Did I use enough exclamation points?!!
Thanks all for your help everyone.