Hi that's it i have settled for this setup
Intel Core i5 2500K Unlocked, S1155, Sandy Bridge, Quad, 3.3GHz, HD3000 IGP 850Mhz, 6MB Cache 95W Retail £174.18
Gigabyte GA-Z68XP-UD3P, Intel Z68, S 1155, DDR3, SATA III - 6Gb/s, RAID SATA, PCIe 2.0 (x16), ATX £126.84
16GB (4x4GB) Corsair DDR3 Vengeance LP Jet Black, PC3-12800 (1600), Non-ECC, CAS 9-9-9-24, XMP, 1.5V £70.99
I had thought on the mobo with the 20gb SSD but i can allways add one of them latter the wife didn't hurt me to much with the phone she got one the same as my daughter got the week before but i don't think there was a conspiracy. I can either get the chip this month or the mobo and ram what do you suggest I don't want to keep the money till next month just incase something else brakes down in the house, I think i should go for the mobo and ram.