I had the same issue with a 9650-8LPML. After quite a lot of hours of work, I found something that worked for me.
The machine is actually booting, just the video isn't initialised properly. Pull out your 3ware card and load the BIOS. Head to the advanced section, then Peripherals, change Init Display First to PEG, and underneath, change Primary PEG from Auto to the address of your video card (most likely the lowest number). Save BIOS, shutdown your computer, re-insert the 3ware card and power up. Your screen should now turn on, and all should work as expected.