I am sure that we all understand how you feel although I think it might have been better placed if you used the offending items forum to air your grievances but it isn't the first time I have heard this. As I say though this is not the right place for deriding the other company whether deserved or not.
I agree with you.
To be honest I have only had one problem with OCUK (touch wood) regarding some Kingston memory that wasnt being detected at the correct rate, and kept crashing my desktop whenever I played the only game I had at the time. I knew it wasnt the board as I tried some memory from my mates pc (it was the same type) and that got detected fine.
After hours of testing and RMA notes/tickets, I finally had enough and requested that I send the memory back and get a replacement. They co-operated, but I ended up with exactly the same problem with the first lot they sent out. I decided to "cut my losses" and brought a different brand of memory from a local PC shop and that worked.
I still buy from OCUK to this day. I even got a "b grade" gigabyte board for my mate as his MSI board died, and it was perfect (it still works, one year later
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I cant argue with their delivery service, and above all they also have their own forum, so if you do have a problem with OCUK, take it to their own forum (they have a hidden/private section for RMA enquires).
At the end of the day, how are they to know of "RMA service problems" if they have no feedback?