first off, thanks for at least trying to help. however, none of the above posts did. i moved the dvd to the gsata controller and kept the ssd on the intel ports, that didnt change anything. i reset the bios once again, this time only changing the following settings from defaults:
first boot device: dvd
second boot device: hd
thrid boot device: disabled
int display first: pcie x16-1
ich sata control mode: ahci
usb mouse function: enabled
on board sata/ide cntl mode: ahci
everything else on default settings. this lets me boot from the windows disk. since i have a new drive with no install on it, i chose "custom" for my install type and it brings up the drive selection screen. with the drive formatted in another computer it would not install giving me an error saying it could not find a valid partition. i then deleted the partition, reallocated all space to a new partition and formatted it. highlighting the new primary partition and hitting next to install windows results in the same error code.
rebooting causes a new error that causes an infinite loop of rebooting: recovering lost dram size.
the only way out of this loop is to shut down and remove the battery from the cmos.
hopefully this extra information can help someone figure out what im doing wrong. if not monday i'll call gigabyte usa and hope i can get help there.
edit: oh one other thing, although it all shows up in the MIT report, only 4gigs of ram are being shown at boot. this hasnt bothered me as a problem because i remember the same thing happening with my old install until the chipset drivers are installed which cant be done until after windows. but, this time it seems like all the ram settings are off. auto settings are only 1066 speed and timings are different.