You will have to jump through hoops, but I had six of these boards and the best I could do PC3 12800 - 1600 memory.
The CPU only supports 1600 memory. Yes is nice to be able to run that memory. Plus you are really not going to see that big of improvement.
The only thing I would try is set the speed and volts. Forget the XMP. I do have some 2000 memory.
I'll try it on my board to see if I can get it to work. I tried once before and all I got it to say that I was OC-ing the memory.