Ok then if you are happy that the memory is 100% (personally I don't consider what you did as a thorough test but we will move on)
Try these for size if you have all slots filled.
Your Uncore needs to be set to 16x - 18x
Your memory voltage needs to be set to 1.55V maybe even a touch higher.
QPI/Vtt should be set to 1.15 - 2.00
Change tRAS to 24
If you could post the exact kit number of your memory so I can see the detailed specs it would be more helpful.
