Thanks! will try that.
Today I turned it on, it booted up without that issue, however it still attempted twice, but it kept my bios settings in tact without opening them. I think it only happens when i turn the power off, at the PSU switch, or physical unplug the computer.
It seems like, it's not drawing enough juice on the first attempt, but by the second attempt its already "primed" with juice from the first attempt and that's why it succeeds.
my memory is at the correct voltage, i had it at 7v as per the corsair tech said that 7v is safe for my ram, but it still did it, so i backed it back down a notch.
make sure the QPI/Vtt stays within 0.5v of it.
This is new info though, Thank you will research if this is correct on my bios.
I am also using a bloomfield P. if that matters.