Hi and welcome.
The figures all may add up and make sense when you calulate them but the PSU is far too small and I wouldn't use any PSU that came supplied with a chassis. It is bound to be crap. Don't try and cut corners espcecially when it comes to your power supply. Even if you are adamant and don't want to fit a decent sized PSU I would strongly advise you to buy a good make (Seasonic, Corsair, Thermaltake, Enermax, Gigabyte, etc) and model of something upwards of 400w. The manufacturer recommends 500W minimum.
The other problem with resuming from sleeep is that the system must be 100% stable for it to work properly so the chances are that something is not working as well as it could be.
Your memory should be fine with that board. However that is not to say that it's not faulty. You could try running Memtest on it to make sure. If you want to follow these instructions:
Please follow these instructions
exactly.
I would suggest that you download and run the latest version of Memtest86+ to check your RAM first.
Memtest86+
http://www.memtest.org/Insert
one stick of memory in
slot 1 and run Memtest on it for at least
10 complete loops/cycles and if there are no errors then swap it over with the next one and continue untill you have checked all modules.
If you have any errors the module is faulty.
If you have any faulty modules you will have to return the whole kit as they are matched.
Post back when you have done that with the results.