Yes, I feel exactly the same about that and in some ways I also feel that I have been cheated by AMD as they haven't made the situation very clear. Hence my research and this thread, as I think people should know the reality rather than the hype.
You may find that your new CPU will run OK with your RAM at 1600 Mhz and without issue, my 1090T does but I have actually pulled it back to 1333 Mhz especially after discovering that, in some cases, your system can appear to be OK only for the Memory Controllers to give up the ghost without warning.
And, to be totally honest, upping the speed of the CPU and keeping the RAM at 1333 Mhz will actually give you better overall performance.