The motherboard just defaults at 1066MHz, as that is the speed officially supported by the cpu (said above). It ensures that the board will post, just in case any higher speeds cause instability.
RAM doesn't tell the motherboard what speed it should run at, that is just the speed that the RAM has been tested and is rated for. With my motherboard, on a different socket, there is an option to enable the XMP of the RAM. This will run the RAM at the highest rated speed, but you may need to adjust the DRAM voltage still (not too sure about AMD motherboard chipsets, have never owned one).